Fetlife

Fetlife is the premier social network for the BDSM community, including the fetish community at large, nearby BDSM communities (to you), and your local kink community as well. The platform is sort of like other social media platforms, where people put together profiles that tell other people about themselves, their interests, and get to know each other. There are many other perks to being on Fetlife as well. Whether you are looking for the San Francisco kink community, the Houston kink community, the Detroit kink community, the Miami kink community, or anywhere else, there are plenty of groups and people to help find what you are looking for.

Very Active Kink Community

The statistics that the site shows when you hit the homepage might seem stunning at first, but I think we all know that there are tons of kinky and perverted people in the world. The people here tend to be a wide range in terms of experience, with people who have been in the BDSM scene for a long time, as well as people who got curious and were pointed to Fetlife as a place they could learn more. This might be one of the most active adult communities for sex, in general, on the Internet today. There is a lot that members of Fetlife can do, and a membership to the community is free.

Supporter Driven Kink Content As Bonus

As for the site statistics, there are over 40 million pictures on the site, featuring plenty of beautiful people of all genders (or without genders), artistic BDSM photo shoot pictures, and colorful BDSM memes and animated posts. The website does have fairly strict policies as to what is or is not allowed for posting, and members of the community are uploading all of the pictures that are being uploaded here. The vast majority of them are of the actual BDSM lifestylers creating the profiles. The website also has a Kinky and Popular section, where some of the most commented on pictures are. In some ways, this section is the cream of the crop. That said, there are only a limited number of images they post here, and plenty more top BDSM pictures are all over the site.

Thousands Of Real Kink Videos

In addition, there are over 650,000 videos posted on the site. Again, these are posted by people in your local BDSM community and BDSM communities around the world. Some people who join the website do not actually attend events in person, meaning that there is room for you regardless of whether you intend to meet other people or just want to be part of the online community at Fetlife (also called Fet by kinksters). In order to get videos, you will need to get a paid membership to the site.

Millions Of BDSM Conversations

When I mentioned the site was active, I was not exaggerating in any way. Even before I came to the site to review it, I had heard the name Fetlife over and over. There are over 8,000,500 discussions that are happening, over 125,000 groups that have been created, and there are over 750,000 kink events that have been made on the site and still haven’t happened yet. This is in addition to the millions of events that have already come and gone over the years. If you are all about direct interaction, there are over 3 million blog posts on the website to read and comment on. This can include educational things, general knowledge, safety about kink, erotica, or just updates people want to share.

Tips For Using Fetlife

When you create an account, you will have the option of putting a profile picture up, filling in details about your relationships, creating a bio, and selecting your kinks to display to the community (if you’d like). Some people do not like having pictures of their faces up on their account, and you do have the option to set privacy settings for each image you download, so only your friends on the site can see them. Like any dating or social site, if you do not have any picture at all on your profile, you might not get very much interaction. There are plenty of body parts (avoid dick pics though) that you can use as your profile picture, and many people do use names and other humorous posts.

Even so, there are a lot of people that use pics of their own body, sometimes in bondage, and sometimes of their faces, which helps give this website the feel of authenticity. These are real kinksters here, and a lot of them. The social feed that you have on your site shows if your friends have been trending, when people change their profiles, when people update their statuses, and when people love pictures of others on the site.
Being A Supporter Has Value

Being a supporter will allow you to scroll further into the past, 25 times more than a free account will let you do. If you have a lot of friends, you might only be able to see back about an hour, maybe less, with a free account.

It also gets you a lot of other things as well, including the ability to watch videos, though you can post videos regardless of whether or not you have a paid account on the site. The website technically does not have memberships, but instead, you become a supporter of the site. It costs money to host all of these pictures/videos and to keep up with the site, and Fetlife appreciates the support. People can support using US bank transfers, major brand gift card trade-ins, bitcoin, and through physical mail as well. Additionally, you can use a Paysafecard, a European Bank Transfer, and a few other bank transfers are available as well.

Becoming a supporter, which does not cost very much per month, will get you a special badge in your profile, the ability to watch over 600,000 real BDSM sex videos, and the ability to see more of the most popular pictures for a more extended period (a total of over 25,000 of them). You also get the ability to view everything you have ever loved (the free account limits this), and you can customize your Friendfeed as well.

Get Tons With A Free Account

Whether or not you have a supporter account, you can view events, create events, join groups, friend BDSM lovers around the world, use the search engine, send and accept friend requests, see your notifications, list relationships you have with other people, and much more. With a free, or a paid account, you can also write posts, upload videos, upload pictures, take a look at the extensive list of fetishes, and browse people by the place you are living or the places you are going to travel to.

Find Kinky Members Worldwide At Fetlife

Fetlife is a website that features people from all around the world. With over 7.5 million members on the site, it is likely that there are kinksters close to you. Many cities have their own kink communities, and you can find events for sex, events that are vanilla (no sex, just social, like munches), educational workshops, and much more.

There is a ridiculously small amount of advertising that you will find on Fetlife; I almost had to look for it in order to find it. Regardless of whether you are looking for kink events in Washington DC, kink events in Montréal, kink events in London, kink events in Japan, or kink events in your local area, this is the top BDSM website for social interactions and events anywhere on the web. Head on over there and create an account, it is entirely free and well worth it.