JALF

MrPornGeek checks out JALF

JALF is an adult dating site that keeps your profile a secret and allows you to discover whatever kind of naughty shit that you like. If you have a sexual fantasy that you’ve never been allowed to enjoy, you may just be able to find some sexy people on JALF to live out that fantasy. The JALF community is said to be open and diverse, and yet your profile is hidden, private and safe in their hands. Well, those are two confliction things right there, so let’s delve deeper into JALF and see what the fuck is going on, shall we?

The community on JALF

JALF has been going for 20 years now, and yet, despite its veteran-status in the adult dating world, JALF has a community that’s only 2.9 million strong. As of 2017, Grindr had 27 million users. In 2018, Tinder reached over 3.7 million PAID users. So, JALF is a pretty small adult dating site. This means that you probably won’t be able to live your sexual fantasy on JALF. Well, unless you’re damn lucky and every single person in your local area happens to use JALF rather than one of the bigger dating sites.

Of course, me comparing JALF to Grindr and Tinder suggest that this adult dating site is actually for dating. I mean, JALF does say that they are a dating site and that you can find a serious relationship on this dating site. However, JALF also appears to be the perfect place for people to cheat on their partners, let me explain more.

Is JALF designed for cheating?

Right, on JALF, your real name is hidden, there is discreet messaging, there are privacy settings for notifications and a secret mode. If JALF isn’t set up for cheating, then it must be a dating service for fucking spies! Why is there a need for this much privacy on a dating service? I get that JALF is also apparently used to live out sexual fantasies that some people may be embarrassed about, but everything about this dating platform screams “this is a good place to come and cheat”, at least to me anyway. There is way too much secrecy on this dating app to suggest that JALF is a valid way of finding a serious relationship, unless you enjoy men and women that are already married, of course.

My final thoughts on JALF

I think I would only use JALF to check whether my partner was cheating if I ever suspected that they were. JALF doesn’t have many users, I doubt JALF has anyone even remotely close to me on their site, so what’s the fucking point in downloading it. If you fancy giving JALF a try, do it. However, just know that any fucker you meet on JALF is almost certainly not the person they are saying they are!